Dreamer: On Women [ Click Here for the conversation ] this conversation had to come to an end due to a very upset women who now refuses to talk. Later she quotes such things as, “ you have really upset me”, and “you know how upset I get”, I have thus concluded that the teasing and piss taking went too far, as funny as it may seem to us males. The females of this world are far too sensitive to cope with the jokes and pranks of the opposite sex, and therefore go into a trance like state where yells, tantrums, or even “the silent treatment” can occur. In the example above a girl of only fourteen years of age struggles to battle against not one but two teenage boys, both at least two years beyond that of the girl, with those sixteen years of studying the ancient art of piss-taking, they crushed the poor girl, who had not had the proper training and sufficient knowledge to deal with the jokes and pranks which were thrown at her, quite out of the blue. This led, in my belief, to a muddled series of primitive defensive mechanisms used by the females back from caveman times, these defensive mechanisms are mentioned briefly above although, as some males may not have encountered the like, I will explain: The silent treatment, is one of the very first defensive mechanisms to evolve, I believe about a million years BC. This nasty technique, when used effectively, can have a devastating effect on the male ego, causing him to ask himself the question, “did I do something wrong”, or perhaps even “did my harmless male teasing fail to impress her”? thus leading to feelings of self worthlessness or in extreme cases, low self esteem, and a negative attitude towards women, be they nasty or nice, it matters not to the male who has had to cope with a rejection, in this case the silent treatment which, roughly translated means; “you have upset me and I no longer wish to engage in conversation with you”, this is one of the most common types of defence used, and is entirely a female thing. The silent treatment can become a rather serious business, I have experienced cases in the past where the female never did forgive the male and continued to ignore. However this is not usually the first stage of defence and is usually used as a last resort, when all else has failed in the attempt to rid the male of further sarcasm. At first the female may use such techniques as “direct dialogue”, this language is relatively simple to understand, even for the underachieving males who lack the basic communication skills necessary to form bonds with potential partners, a good example which was in fact said later in the conversation was,” you have really upset me!”. A comment like this is often used, it lets the male stop for a moment and decide weather or not to proceed with any further comments which may contain offensive to the already upset female. In the above example, the jokes continued, unfortunately so did the upset, this concluded with an upset steph, who disabled the conversation and left, like a wounded animal, she fled from battle, knowing that losing would mean certain death, or, in this case, tears. Article Written by Dreamer |